Our puzzle was to complete our tradition with our last child of the 12 gifts at her Bat Mitzvah. We give 12 symbolic gifts (one for each year) that represent some words of wisdom as they begin their life's journey as an "adult". The puzzle is "remember the big picture", each puzzle piece is an experience, person or life lesson that when put together reminds you that the big picture is the sum of your life experiences. Take a breath & a step back to see the big picture.